Comments on: Stuck In An Uncommitted Relationship?

By: admin

admin — Mon, 05 Dec 2011 23:04:18 +0000

Sometimes moving on is a good option. If you let her go and it’s meant to be, she will come back. If she moves on, then you know it was the best thing for both of you. You can’t be happy in a relationship if your both not on board.

By: Nigel

Nigel — Wed, 30 Nov 2011 21:58:34 +0000

I have been with my girlfriend for 9 years, and living together for 7. In the first couple of years it was a bit rough as my x girlfriend of 11 years was hard to get out of my head. (i never cheated however) I had gotten her an engagement ring that she wore, but due to financial circumstances (she had a large tax lien and i owned allot of real estate) we were not able to get married..so we delayed.. Then, so the years roll by and we moved to new Mexico because she landed a good job. I made the stupid moved of having coffee with my x girlfriend and snapped a photo. that was 2 years ago. She took the ring off and I haven’t seen it since. But we seemed to be getting along fine except for a serious lack of affection and very little sex. Then 2 months ago when she was in Europe on business, I flew to Paris to meet her and propose, I felt that things were improving for us, and in my heart it felt really good to move on it. Despite the fact that we were barely having having sex, like once every 3-4 months!! I was devastated when she turned me down. Since then I suggested we get into couples counseling and we are there now. Then 2 days ago while having a late night discussion, she told me she was uncommitted! I really freaked out and said maybe you are just to chicken shit to dump me. She said that she still loves me, but now i’m feeling like maybe I need to move on while I still have some good dating years left in me. Its not what I want but what choice do I have?

By: Gillian Reynolds

Gillian Reynolds — Fri, 04 Nov 2011 12:06:21 +0000

This advice is spot on! It such an emotional challenge for a woman to find herself desperately in love with a man who just won’t commit. I applaud you for explaining exactly what a man feels when a woman persistently pressures him into a commitment. Your insight is so valuable and so appreciated. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

By: T

Mon, 24 Oct 2011 07:28:14 +0000

why is it when a man tells a woman how he feels and thinks he is falling for her his exact words that a woman replies and tells him how she feels only for him to pull away?????? its like its fine when a man puts his feelings into words but not when the woman pputs hers into words. Some men are the first to say how they are feeling and some women wait for this to happen and when it does they are honest in how they feel only to have the man run or pull back.

By: Tiffany Forti

Tiffany Forti — Tue, 23 Aug 2011 14:30:27 +0000

Do you know what the issue with the most of the women is? They’re way far too nice. Catering his each and every need. You need to really just attempt to stand up for yourself instead to make sure he is the one who works to have an attention from you. That’s how it needs to be in nature.

By: Evelyn S.Catipay

Evelyn S.Catipay — Sat, 05 Feb 2011 11:26:26 +0000

This is interesting!!!!